Today was pretty bad

Today I had one of those terrible days that I dread, one of the main reasons why I don't like boyfriends is because of all the drama that comes with them. I have been dating a guy a bit steady, we are not boyfriend and girlfriend nor did we agree on being exclusive but we've been dating long enough that it's not just casual.

What should have been a wonderful relaxing Sunday turned into a stressful afternoon when he began to pick a fight about a random subject. First he was just a bit mean going on about not being happy, being bored, or being made to feel unwanted and soon that got me going and before we knew it, it was a fight. I really hate to fight with anyone, much less with a guy that's really nothing special, just someone I date. It's like I spent all this energy on this stupid fight that I didn't have to.

I got mad enough that for the first time in my life I got up and showed someone the door. He was so mad and kept ignoring me, still going on and on and on until I finally had to tell him forcibly to get the hell out. Enough is enough, I live my life pretty excluded from people, I work all day and when I am off I try to spend those precious moments enjoying life and not arguing with people who do it for what seems like fun. I want peace and happiness that's all, and if he has now brought negativity to my life then there is no more room in it for him.

My 1st Post

I have been planning a blog for it seems like forever. Yet, every time I went to start it something else always came up and once again I would forget about it. This time I told myself I would get it started even if I had to spend the entire night setting it up. Now that I have a temporary set up I can begin to tell you a bit about myself.

Who is Bella?

My name is Isabella and I am a California girl through and through. I was born here and lived here all my life except for the 4 years I lived in Hawaii. My mom and dad recently moved to Venice Beach very close to the boardwalk. They sold their home in Solana Beach for a bundle and decided they wanted to go and live a bohemian retirement by "the boardwalk". Not sure how bohemian they can actually claim to be as they love in a multimillionaire dollar home, but that's a story for another time.

  

Meanwhile I found a place to live in another coastal town, Cardiff California. It's the perfect place for a young single person to live as it has a great night life and incredible beaches by day. I rent my own place near downtown and have the luxury of working at home as a virtual assistant. Not exactly what my parents think of as a dream career but I make enough to support my semi-extravagant lifestyle and since I have no kids it's perfect, at least for the time being.

I don't have a boyfriend as I prefer to date and keep my options open. When I was younger I got into a few serious relationships that ended up badly so now I take care not to repeat that, instead I see different people and I don't set my expectations to high. One day when I am ready to settle I will begin to look for the "perfect" man, but for now I date guys that are funny, attractive and fun. Nothing too serious and nothing stressful.  

Most days you will find me at my place working or at one of the local cafes with my laptop in hand doing jobs for my clients. Now I hope to make some time to get my blog going and use it as a sort of journal of my life. 

I hope I can make some friends in the bloggy community. Since most of my time is spent online I want to have  some friends that I can keep in contact with during all my hours online. I think it's going to be a blast and I can't wait to get this really going. 

Tomorrow I am joining my 1st blog hop and will get to finally be a part of this great community of bloggers. If you are here from the hop welcome !!